Does this sound like you?
You might be wondering – “How will I manage?” or “What will happen to me now?” You might find yourself feeling apprehensive or afraid.
Maybe you’re asking yourself – “How will I cope?”, “What will I do?”, “How can I get through this?”, “Where will I live – can I afford to stay in my home?” You might be worrying about the kids, your family, the dog…
Are you feeling that you don’t know what to do now? How can you cope with this? Some people may think “Why did this happen to me?”, “Why am I so angry?”, “Why me, why now?” or “Why not someone else?”
You might be thinking “I don’t know how to manage my bank account or pay my bills.” Are you scared about things – asking yourself “How do I move forward?”
You may find yourself asking none of these, some of these, or even all of these questions – you may even have additional concerns not mentioned here. Whatever the case, one thing is certain: however you feel, that’s ok. It’s a normal part of the process and you’re in the right place.
Becoming ‘Suddenly Single’ can occur for a variety of reasons…
Male or female, at any age, the breakdown of your relationship or bereavement can be overwhelming. Many people feel hurt, lost, isolated, devastated, shocked or worse. It can feel like you’ve lost control of your world – you may even be questioning who you are now.
Surprisingly, this can happen even if it was your decision to leave your partner. You may be asking – “Why me?”, “Why now?”, “Where do I go from here?” Life has changed and it can look as though things will never be normal again (whatever normal may mean to you).
There can be a multitude of issues to be considered and decision to be made, and they can all appear to be crucial and urgent. Your home, your family, your financial security – all the things which you may have taken for granted may need to be addressed, at a time when you are dealing with emotional upheaval.
What we offer is a number of tailored options to support you through the process depending on your personal needs; a confidential, safe place to explore your options and look at your situation now and going forward. We provide practical and emotional advice and assistance as your situation evolves and moves forward; someone to listen and advise; and most importantly, space and time solely for you.
We will help you explore your issues, which may include:
This may consist of a weekly tele-class or personal, one-to-one phone
session or we can come to you, if that’s what you want. We offer
a free and confidential initial telephone consultation to discuss your
specific needs and requirements.